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  • Birthday: Jul 3, 1978
  • Gender: Female
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  • Reply to blog post: Sorry ass people around kids!! by jessfreethinkin
    Comment written 5 months ago

    Yeah that is what I thought too!! I freakin hate people who hurt kids and I try not to hate anyone!!!!  Cool

  • Reply to blog post: In laws by pinksxyred
    Comment written 5 months ago

    Boxing

    Wow girl I think that is a jacked up situation! My husband is not my sons real father either but my husbands family has been pretty good with my son. I was worried when my husband and I had our daughter things would change but they havent. The family is great with my son.  Now my son is 8 and my husband has been around since my son was 3 going on 4. He has been wonderful. He has been there for everything my son has done 1st day of school. All the sports my son has played. EVERYTHING. now my sons real father is a fool and a azzhole. In my sons 8 years he has been around total about 1year of it. and bought about $200.00 worth of stuff in 8 years. Now we havent heard from him in about 2 or 3 years. Anyway my son calls my husband dad. Well my sons aunts didnt like that. So I had to let them know. They should be glad someone is taking such good care of their nephew and that he is happy and has all he wants and needs. I do not talk bad about his real father and I dont discourage him from talking about him or try to make him forget him, but my son knows who loves him and who takes care of him. My son made the choice to call my husband dad. I didnt make him.  Good lord anyway what I am saying is I understand what you are saying and going through. You need to do what is right for you and your children. Those kids will grow up and see her for the person she is but do not allow her to show fav. to either or because it will cause problems between the children. Make sure she knows. GOD dont like ugly and he doesnt like you to hurt his children in anyway. Emotionally or physically. Hell yes you have the right to be f'n mad. Your husband doesnt need to choose between his family and his mother but he does need to make sure everyone respects everyone.....

    CoolJess 

  • Reply to blog post: MEN by pinksxyred
    Comment written 5 months ago

    I know what you mean suga my husband will walk by and (tickle?) my butt or get a cheap feel of my lady lumps. I am just like are you for real could you maybe come up and just give me a deep passionate kiss or if you are going to feel me up do it passionately not booty hungry!!! I have talk to my husband about it too and he has got better about it. I think it just depends on their maturity level. Men are like big azz kids and they hit puberty at like 50 lol!!!

      just stay on him he will grow up one day. Let him know your not his hoe your his wife! Wink

     

    CoolJess

  • Reply to blog post: Dazed and Confused by Tiffiny9880
    Comment written 5 months ago

    OH AND BY THE WAY YOUR BLOGS ARE GREAT I LIKE TO READ ONES ABOUT PEOPLE AND THEIR REAL FEELINGS. I AM NEW TO THIS TOO I HAVE A LOT OF GOOD ONES ON MY MYSPACE BECAUSE THAT IS WHERE I STARTED BUT I LIKE THIS BETTER. MY HUSBAND SAYS I WRITE REALLY "HARD" MEANING I TEND TO HURT PEOPLES FEELINGS AND IT UPSETS HIM. BUT I EXPLAIN TO HIM I WRITE WHAT I FEEL AND WHAT I WANT AND PEOPLE TAKE AS THEY WILL BUT IF I WRITE SOMETHING NOT DIRECTED TOWARDS ANYONE PERSON IF THEY GET MAD IT MUST BE BECAUSE THEY ARE FEELING GUILTY ABOUT THE SITUATION I AM WRITING ABOUT AND THEY NEED TO LOOK INTO THAT. IT IS MATTER OF WHO YOU ARE AND WHAT YOU BELIEVE OR FEEL KEEP IT UP. JUST BE YOU!!Cool JESS

  • Reply to blog post: Dazed and Confused by Tiffiny9880
    Comment written 5 months ago

    Cool TIFFINY,

    WOW LET ME TELL YOU WE ARE RIGHT THERE ON THE SAME PAGE. I ON THE OTHER HAND AM STILL IN THE MIDDLE OF FINDING MYSELF AND ALONG THE WAY I FOUND MY FRIENDS WERE NOT MY FRIENDS. SO I AM TRYING TO MAKE NEW ONES. IT HAS BEEN REALLY HARD FOR ME TO TRUST PEOPLE AND I ALWAYS PICK THE WRONG PEOPLE TO HANG WITH AND THEREFORE IT MADE ME SOMETHING I WASNT.  THEREFORE PEOPLE NOW DONT WANT TO HANG WITH ME BECAUSE OF WHO I WAS THEN. ITS A MESS. BUT THAT IS HOW IT IS WHEN YOU ARE IN A SMALL TOWN. MY HUSBAND IS A GOOD FRIEND AND GOD IS GREAT. I WILL SAY I HAVE A FRIEND WHO I HAVE BEEN FRIENDS WITH SINCE 6TH GRADE WELL 3 ACTUALLY BUT 2 OF THEM ARE SO FAR AWAY WE DONT TALK MUCH BUT THE OTHER LIVES HERE IN TOWN. WE HAVE BEEN FRIENDS SINCE THE 5TH OR 6TH GRADE AND WE ARE STILL COOL BUT I AM MARRIED WITH A FAMILY AND SHE IS A PARTY GIRL SO OUR LIVES ARE SO DIFFERENT THAT IT CONFLICTS WITH EACH OTHER AND MAKES IT HARD BECAUSE WE HAVE OUT GROWN EACH OTHER. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP ONE GOOD FRIEND IS BETTER THEN NONE OR A HAND FULL OF FAKE ONES.

    CoolJESS

  • Reply to blog post: Joys of Marriage by Tiffiny9880
    Comment written 5 months ago

    Wink I HAVE NOT EVEN REACHED A YEAR YET AND MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE HAD OUR PROBLEMS ALREADY WE HAVE LIVED TOGETHER FOR 3 YEARS BEFORE WE GOT MARRIED AND DATED A YEAR BEFORE WE MOVED IN TOGETHER. mY SON IS NOT HIS AND THAT HAS BEEN AN EXPERIANCE BUT SO FAR IT HAS BEEN WORTH IT. JUST REMEMBER YOU ARE THE MOTHER AND THE ROCK IN THE FAMILY. MEN ARE "BREAD WINNERS" THEY ARE ALSO BIG OL KIDS TOO SO SOMETIMES THEY ARE NOT THINKING LIKE THEY SHOULD BUT WHEN IT ALL BLOWS OVER THEY TEND TO LOOK BACK AND BE LIKE OOOOOH I GET IT!!! WE JUST HAVE TO LEARN TO WAIT IT OUT AND UNDERSTAND WE THINK VERY DIFFERENTLY FROM MEN. THINGS THAT ARE IMPORTANT TO US MAY NOT BE IMPORTANT TO THEM AT THAT MOMENT. OH AND TIFFINY I WOULD OF MADE MY SON DO HIS HOMEWORK RIGHT AFTER SCHOOL TOO!!! NOT THAT YOU ARE WRONG BUT I HAVE LEARNED IT MAKES THE REST OF THE DAY SO MUCH MORE EASIER!!! LOL!!! MY SON I THINK MY HAVE ADD WE HAVE TO GET HIM TESTED AND IF WE WAIT TO DO HOMEWORK WE WONT GET DONE TILL 10 OR 11 AT NIGHT. AND WE ALL PLAY SO KIND OF CITY LEAUGE SPORT SO WE ARE VERY BUSY AT MY HOUSE. JUST A HELPFUL MOMMY HINT ; ) GOOD LUCK SUGA ALL WILL BE WELL!!Cool JESS 

  • Reply to blog post: Update From Behind The Scenes by team
    Comment written 5 months ago

    Laughing I was just wondering if you guys are ever going to make it so we can customize our profile pages so they fit who we are? I really like this site but I want my profile to fit who I am and make me an individual. Just a question really. Or is that already done and my ding butt just doesnt know how to do it. Thanks guys!!!Tongue out

    Jessfreethinkin!!Kiss

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