I LIVE IN A SMALL TOWN HERE IN KANSAS AND THESE BROADS ARE DIRTY. THEY DON'T CARE IF YOU ARE MARRIED ,TAKEN, SINGLE OR WHATEVER. IF ONE OF THESE HOOD RATS LIKES WHAT THEY SEE THEY JUMP ON IT LIKE FLIES ON SHIT. I MEAN HOW FREAKIN LOW IS THAT. THEY TRY TO BE SNEAKY AND THEN WHEN THEY GET CAUGHT THEY TRY TO LIE ABOUT IT. WHY WOULD A FEMALE WANT TO BE "THE OTHER WOMAN" I MEAN REALLY DO THEY REALLY THINK THE MAN WILL LEAVE THAT WOMAN FOR THEM? THIS IS A SUBJECT THAT WILL BE IN QUESTION FOR A VERY LONG TIME. I MEAN IT IS A NEVER ENDING DEAL WITH PEOPLE, THEY WANT THEIR CAKE AND EAT IT TOO. WHY GET INTO A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP IF YOU ARE NOT 100% READY TO BE WITH THAT PERSON. SEX IS DANGEROUS THESE DAYS. VERY DANGEROUS. YOU CANT JUST GIVE IT TO ANYONE AND MOVE ON TO THE NEXT.... WHAT ARE THESE PEOPLE THINKING! WHEN YOU TELL SOMEONE YOU LOVE THEM THAT IS A REAL THING. IT IS LIKE YOU BREATH THAT PERSON. YOU SEE THEM WHEN YOU CLOSE YOUR EYES. YOU KNOW IF YOU WERE TO LEAVE FOR A WEEK AT A TIME YOU WOULD BE MISSING THIS PERSON SO MUCH YOU FEEL THE PAIN IN YOUR HEART. LOVE IS A FEELING THAT CAN HURT YOUR HEART AND SOUL GOOD OR BAD. LOVE IS NOT A GAME YOU PLAY BECAUSE IN THE END EVERYONE WILL LOOSE. WHEN YOU HURT SOMEONES HEART OR SOUL IT MIGHT NOT GET YOU THEN BUT IT WILL SNEAK UP ON YOU AND TAKE A CHUNK OUT OF YOUR ASS. YOU WILL GO THROUGH IT AND GO THROUGH IT BAD. REMEMBER EVERYTHING YOU DO TO SOMEONE GOOD OR BAD WILL COME BACK AND IT WILL HAPPEN TO YOU ONE WAY OR ANOTHER 10 TIMES MORE THEN HOW YOU HANDLED YOURSELF. YOU CAN BE SNEAKY IF YOU CHOOSE TO BUT I PROMISE YOU WHATEVER YOU HAVE DONE IN THE DARK WILL ALWAYS COME TO THE LIGHT EVEN IF IT IS DAYS,MONTHS,OR YEARS FROM NOW IT WILL COME OUT AND THE OUTCOME WONT BE AS GOOD AS YOU MAY THINK IT IS. YOU MAY NOT CARE NOW BUT WHEN THAT TIME COMES YOU MAYBE IN A DIFFERENT PLACE IN YOUR LIFE TO WHERE YOU WILL CARE MORE THEN YOU THINK, AND THE PAIN WILL RIP YOU APART AND SPIT YOU OUT AS IF TO SAY I TOLD YOU SO. DON'T PLAY WITH LOVE PEOPLE IT IS NO JOKE IT IS LIKE AN EVIL MAGIC THAT MAKES US DO THINGS TO KEEP US GOING AROUND AND AROUND. IF YOU HAVE ANY PRIDE IN YOURSELF YOU WOULD BE THE BIGGER PERSON AND MAN UP TO WHO YOU WANT TO BE AND MAKE A CHOICE ABOUT LOVE AND THE GREATNESS IT SHOULD HOLD FOR YOU AND ANYONE YOU CHOSE TO GIVE IT TO. THERE IS NO RIGHT OR WRONG HERE I GUESS BECAUSE EVERYONE VIEWS IT DIFFERENTLY. BUT HOW YOU LIVE IT WILL MAKE YOU WHO YOU ARE FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. DON'T PLAY WITH BLACK MAGIC (LOVE) IT BITES HARD. YOU WILL CARRY THE SCARS FOR A LIFE TIME AND COULD PASS IT ON TO ANOTHER. PEOPLE WONDER WHAT ALL THE HATE IS AROUND HERE IT IS LOVE GONE WRONG ONE WAY OR ANOTHER.
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Sounds like you've had some experience with infidelity in a relationship you thought would be faithful or monagomous. Just like many men have their flaws (culturally more than as individuals) many women have theirs. What you may not realize is that their exchange with a man may serve to validate them on a very personal level.
What little self-worth they may have is grounded in their sex and the words that a man says to them during the dark gropings of forbidden intimacy make these women light up and they become addicted to the feelings they experience during those charged sexual moments. There is a woman (a doctor, I think) who explains about our emotional and our psychological aspects being tied to our sex. Her name is Alexyss Tyler and she really has grasp of what is going wrong in many of our urban areas.
All of us need some type of validation in our lives that says we are worthy of love. Touch is the most powerful confirmation of our worth that there is. Unfortunately, it is perverted and twisted by many men and women because of their suffering and their upbringing. So it is not simply touch as in hugs and holding hands and holding someone's face in your hands or caressing their face or tickling, but sex. The intensity and power of the emotions and chemical changes in the body make for an intoxicating cocktail that people do many things for, even make ties with partners who are already involved or are an unhealthy match.
I'm sure you are aware of the power of touch. Women all want to be touched and cherished and some of them envy what others have and want to destroy it. They do not want it for themselves but they also do not want anyone else to have it.
I used to be such an evil person, I sought out married women who were unhappy or vulnerable and I played to their needs and their desires in order to lure them into infidelity. This happened regularly to some of my closest companions in the Marine Corps. A good woman would succumb after many months away from her partner and even having children they would stray after enough time apart. Loneliness is a strong motivator and uncomplicated affection and intimacy is very alluring.
Of course, I do not excuse the behavior of these women (or men) but I offer some explanation as I understand it. Knowing more about something does not make it less painful or confusing. However, if you know someone who continuously makes bad decisions about relationships, you may want to share some of these things with them. It may help them.
This was very well put and thank you for IT!!! I use to be one of those women. Only I made sure I NEVER delt with a man in a relationship. Never. And if by chance I did it was because I was unaware. So I understand what some of these females are feeling, but You just dont mess with a man who is taken let alone married.
Jess
Thanks a bunch!! I try very hard never to let a past relationship affect a new one. I think I have handled it well so far. But it is different when it is your own husband ya know.
Its cool though I have learned alot in my life and men would be one of them. I dont know everything but I do know somethings. lol!!! Thanks!!! 
Jess