Who are YOUR friends?????

I wrote a really good blog on friendships the other day but I wrote it on another site because I am trying out 2 different sites. But I think I like this one by far so far anyway. I may move some blogs over here so they can be read. matter of fact I will just do that here is my blog. hope you all like it!! There isalways more where that came from!!

I DONT UNDERSTAND PEOPLE SOMETIMES WHEN THEY SAY ONE THING AND DO ANOTHER, MAKE UP YOUR FREAKIN MIND. REALLY DONT SAY YOU DONT LIKE THIS PERSON THEN BE ALL UP IN THEIR FACE ALL THE DAMN TIME WHAT FREAKIN SENSE DOES THAT MAKE? NONE IT JUST MAKES YOU A FAKE PERSON WHO DOESNT KNOW WHAT THE HELL THEY WANT OUT OF LIFE OR RELATIONSHIPS. YOU HAVE TO LEARN THAT EVERYONE IN LIFEWILL TALK ABOUT YOU AND LOOK AT YOU ONE WAY OR ANOTHER AND YOU JUST HAVE TO DEAL WITH IT AND MOVE ON. YOU CAN NOT DWELL ON IT AND FUSS OVER IT BECAUSE THEN YOU HAVE JUST GIVEN THAT PERSON THE POWER OVER YOU THEY KNEW THEY HAD IN THE FIRST PLACE. YOU KNOW THIS PERSON DOES NOT CARE FOR YOU LET THEM GO. YOU DONT NEED TO SIT THERE AND BE ALL BUDDY BUDDY WITH THEM. QUIT TRYING TO MAKE THEM LIKE YOU WHEN YOU KNOW YOUR ASS DONT LIKE THEM EITHER. NOW IF YOU DONT LIKE THEM WHY ARE YOU TRYING SO HARD TO MAKE THAT PERSON LIKE YOU??????
  MAYBE YOU ARE CONFUSED ABOUT WHAT LIKE AND DISLIKE ARE? i MEAN COME ON PEOPLE IF THIS BROAD DOESNT LIKE ME I AM NOT GOING TO GO OVER AND KISS HER ASS SO SHE WILL BE MY FRIEND JUST SO I CAN COME TO THE REALIZATION THAT I NEVER LIKED HER IN THE FIRST PLACE. PEOPLE COME AND GO IN YOUR LIFE YOU HAVE TO LET THEM COME AND GO BECAUSE THAT IS HOW YOU LEARN WHO IS A REAL FRIEND AND WHO IS SOMEONE TRYING TO BOOST WHO THEY ARE. PEOPLE TEND TO USE PEOPLE FOR ALL DIFFERENT REASONS. SOMETIMES GOOD SOMETIMES BAD BUT YOU HAVE TO FIGURE OUT ARE YOU BEING USED FOR GOOD OR BAD?????? LIFE QUESTION OF THE WEEK!!!!! LOL!!!! YOU CANT CALL EVERYONE FRIEND SORRY BUT THAT IS JUST THE WAY IT IS. YOU HAVE TO LEARN TO SEPERATE THE 2. YOU HAVE FRIENDS AND PEOPLE YOU KNOW. TO DETERMINE IF SOMEONE IS YOUR FRIEND YOU NEED TO MAKE A LIST OF WHAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO HAVE IN A FRIEND NOW SEE IF THAT PERSON FITS IN THAT LIST IF THAT PERSON HAS OVER HALF YOUR QUALIFICATIONS THEN THAT VERY WELL COULD BE A FRIEND. NOW IF THAT PERSON HAS LESS THEN HALF YOU MAY NEED TO RE THINK THE WHOLE FRIEND THING AND MOVE THEM TO SOMEONE YOU KNOW. REALLY ITS NOT THAT HARD AND YOU MAYBE HAPPIER IN THE LONG RUN. JUST A THOUGHT.
     SOMETHING I WANTED TO PUT OUT THERE THATS ALL. YOU JUST HAVE TO BE MORE CAREFUL WHO YOU HAVE AROUND YOU AND WHO YOU CAN TRUST BECAUSE YOU CANT TRUST EVERYONE OR HARDLY ANYONE. ITS A SAD TRUTH BUT THAT IS WHAT IT IS.

                     ~To have a FRIEND you must BE a FRIEND.~
                                                 ~unknown~